Mary Gillett, MS, CD(DONA), is a Health Educator in Greensboro, North Carolina. Though she has years of teaching new parents, she discovered that HUG Your Baby further enhances the care she provides. She describes her process of becoming a Certified HUG Teacher.
Not only has HUG Your Baby Teacher Certification enhanced my postpartum visits as a birth doula, but it has also increased my potential for facilitating multi-generational support in families. “Broadcasting” offers a way to affirm positive behaviors without appearing intrusive.
I chose to document my “practice” HUG class after I attended a joint baby shower for two young families. Their situation is special because they have one set of grandparents in common. My intended class of four shrank immediately to three because one birth father decided not to attend, but within a few minutes it grew exponentially when an assortment of grandparents, close family friends, as well as a young teenaged aunt and her best friend decided to pile in for the class.
It was heartening to see that the three young parents were comfortable with their parents and family friends attending, and even wanted them there to help understand some of their needs and desires as parents. It was also great to see two teenagers curious about the needs of their sister and sister-in-law and what they could do to support them. I was pleased that the older members of the audience listened with patience and support, and offered personal comments and relevant input on their own parenting journey, without dominating the conversation. They all just wanted to be on the same page with the pregnant couples, but it was clear that this experience always calls back your most vivid memories as a young parent with a newborn. It is extremely challenging not to jump in and give advice, especially when so many things change from one generation to another (safe sleep, breastfeeding duration, going back to work, birth choices, etc.)
I am confident that those in attendance were open to learning and to offering support, while allowing the parents autonomy to make their own decisions. As I have followed one couple through their birth and first week of breastfeeding it has been gratifying to see the support of the extended family as they take the HUG principles and are able to support these practices as they care for their daughter and granddaughter.
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Jan Tedder, BSN, FNP, IBCLC
Jan Tedder, BSN, IBCLC, Family Nurse Practitioner
Jan has worked in a primary care setting with babies and their families for thirty years. A graduate of UNC Charolotte and Chapel Hill, she has lectured at both national and international conferences. She has been honored as the NC Maternal Child Health Nurse of the Year. Her website, DVD, and online training are winners of the 2007 and 2009 National Health and WWW Awards.